“My greatest challenge has been to change the mindset of people.

Mindset play strange tricks on us.

We see things the way our minds have instructed our eyes to see.

-Mahammad Yunus



A year and half ago I was city girl, but know I am a country girl with a few acres, four chickens and a turtle. You can say I am taking it very slow in the animal department, due to the fact that animals require a lot of time and commitment, and that my husband has not quit his day job. Having a ranch was not my dream. It was my husband’s dream. His life goal is to be an almond farmer with a few more chickens, goats, cows and a horse. He supported me following my dream of Personal Development Coaching/Inspirational Speaking, therefore I felt that living in a farm was the least I could do for him. Yet, there are days I want to scream because my home is always work in progress. Anybody that has lived in reconstruction understands how challenging this can be. Yesterday, as I looked at the corn field next to our place I thought about how everything my husband had created in his mind was coming to fruition. I can remember when we first got married that we lived in a very small home with a tiny backyard. I loved it because it was our first home. Back then this was all we could afford.  So when looking back at our lives I see that we have been true creators of our desires. Everything that we have wished for at one time or another has happened. So why would I every doubt future success? Well, we always doubt our potential our capability because we lack patience. We see impossibilities in the future and we have these beliefs that good things happen to other people. So we get what we believe. These amazing things that you desire start in your mind, they then turn into things that you say and then become physical realities.

How about you?  Do you like what you see in your life? Have you been a successful creator of your life? If so, congratulations you have done well for yourself. You have attracted all those wonderful things to your life.  If not, you have only one person to blame yourself! You have created it. Here are four tips to create the life or your dreams.

What do you believe you deserve for your life? Do you have limiting beliefs? When I looked back at my limiting beliefs, I had a tough time believing that I could be a business owner. I thought that business owners had no heart that all they cared about was the bottom line, which was to make money. I rejected this idea because one does not get into education for the money, I thought I got into it for the love of teaching. Then I discovered that indeed I enjoyed it, but I would not do it for free. Sadly, I don’t think I know anybody that could afford to do it for free. We all have bills and a mortgage to pay so education also has a bottom line. Today, I understand what was holding me back and what to do to release myself from this limiting belief. What are your beliefs about success?

I would suggest looking at motivational videos or reading inspirational books about success. I am an auditory person so I also like to listen to powerful talks about personal development when I drive to meetings or appointments. Focusing on positive people in your life is part of staying positive. I know I have said this before but, “we are the company that we keep.” Is your circle pushing you to your best life or keeping you away from it? Evaluate these friendships and eliminate, eliminate, eliminate.

What your desire? You have to focus on it and act like you already have it. How do you do that you ask? By showing gratitude for what you have and staying positive. Also believe that what you are wanting is on its way. The truth is that what you want is already yours you just have to match your energy with that of the universe. It’s like a puzzle piece that is looking for the right fit, so are your desires.

The subconscious mind is the mind that you need to train so that your desires could flourish. This was very difficult for me because I used to be very practical and reasonable. This was what my subconscious mind was used to. I came in like a wrecking ball, destroying everything that I believed was real to my life. I then demanded my subconscious mind to be open to endless possibilities that it had never experience. Train it to believe that what you truly desire will be a sure thing, but do remember to give it time.

In essence it is very important to be cognizant of your thoughts and train your subconscious. Your thoughts and beliefs are the secret to your success. To get the life you want, it takes awareness and responsibility of those thoughts. Change those negative vibrations so that your life can change from an OK to WOW! Don’t forget you are worthy of everything you desire! Until next Monday watch your thoughts and don’t forget to Believe. Change. Become!

NancyJ

PS. I will be offering a webinar on how to Make Your Mindset a Believe Mindset. Email me at Nancy@believechangebecome.netif you would like for information about this course.